shezzowicked18

My girlfriend's getting her crazy moments again. As usual she just points fingers and makes ridiculous accusations without a hint of proof or using any kind of logic, only her instinct. Preposterous.

Here's the deal. I went out with a girl friend of mine named Tin to Festival Mall in Alabang bacause of a power outage at her house. This was after lunch till late 5 something. We just went around looking at the shops, had coffee and finally dinner before heading home. 

Now here's her allegation. Another friend of ours named Camille was with was us yesterday. Her so-called proof is some tumblr photo, which she is supposed to show me when she gets back from wherever she will go and whatever she will do.

Now this is impossible because it was only I and Tin who were at Festival mall. Wherever Camille was I do not know. 

The only way to prove this is to find witnesses to testify where I was and who I was with from 12-6 yesterday, as well as to the whereabouts of Tin and Camille. 

Knowing my girlfriend, she probably conjured some old photo without verifying the date or even the place.

One thing is for sure, she will pick a fight later, and I'll just get a headache and angry. 

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Okay, I hate ranting on facebook so I'll just do it here. 

My girlfriend goes to work as a receptionist for some BPO. I think its a 9-5 kind of work, for I am sure she ends at 5 pm. She almost never gets home early, the average time of arrival being 8:30 pm (She mostly arrives 7:30 to 8, and at times 9, 10, 11 and 12 with 2 times at least arriving 630-7) when she lives only in Novaliches while working in Ortigas. 

I get that you have dinner with officemates and outings and shit with other friends but she does it almost everyday while our daughter is at her place with the househelp and yaya when she could just be here with me in my house where she gets to see more relatives, so even if I'm not at home there are her grandparents and great-grandma here with her. 

Another thing that irks me is that she has to do stuff that is not in her job description (or so she says). I spent time in a front before and you see receptionists everywhere so I can fairly say I know what a receptionist does.

She is required to attend meetings with the bosses. I don't get that, but maybe at times the boss wants someone to write things down or something. Still, there is something called a secretary.

These meetings are non-negotiable even if she already called in sick she has to go to the office at 5 pm for a meeting (now this really sounds like a lie but I'll give her the benift of the doubt) which they need the receptionist.

She is also required to be at the company's booth at events in world trade, smx and such. I get it that they may want a sort of promo-girl to attract people but she denies this and says she's there as part of the HR team or whatever. She brags so much that she was chosen to represent the company with a select few to explain company stuff and crap while the other's with more experience, higher positions and are more qualified did not make the cut to join. 

Lastly, she expects me not to be the same. She expects me not to do the things she does. Like, what the hell? You can dish it out but you can't take it?

This ain't revenge as I tell her, it is all about principle, about fairness. 

P.S. I'm not bashing the occupation, I'm just stating facts, unless I am wrong about a said fact then my apologies.

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Sometime in the future, not in the near future but a year or so later I''ll go back to San Diego California for a vacation. Gonna visit my bros and borrow a car and drive my way all over the state. San Francisco, Los Angeles, Orange County and other places I haven't visited. Just driving and stopping once in a while to enjoy the scenery. I'd visit a few friends in the area who have opted to live in America for one reason or another.

In the US I would be away from it all, problems and joys both. I would get time to think, ponder and just find the path I want to take.

Contrary to what a fool friend of mine with occasional narrow views and weak sense of comparision, my life isn't boring, but the opposite. I had my shares of such excitment that I crave for some boredom. Rest. My life now is full of questions, both good and bad with not easy solutions but with many answers. There are many paths for me to take, and each path with its own crossroads and alternate detours. Some of these paths are blocked by fear, others by despair. I have to chose which to overcome, I'm not fearless but I'm not a total coward, when the situation demands it I find myself braver than others. It' like what I read in the book, The Game of Thrones, You need fear to be brave. Maybe sometime in America would give me solutions and set me on the most viable path. 

Maybe I need to leave California, and like the song says go to Boston.

Well maybe not Boston but somewhere a lot different from California in scenery.

I could even cross over to Canada, but damn it's cold there they say, but I got friends there I could visit, even though I don't like snow. 

But this would be after I have finished my graduate studies and after my first job and even my second job as an educator finally, then I would head for the sunny vales of California singing to the tune of Phantom Planet's California.

shezzowicked18

I love adobo, out of all my favorite foods adobo makes it number one to the list. I have tried adobo from many different places and restaurants. Chicken adobo, pork adobo, adobo ribs, squid adobo, liver adobo, adobo rice, etc. Of course how can I forget the adobo I have tasted from my own home and the homes of people I know. Now to list the places and rate their adobo from 1-10, of course this is my personal preference only haha. For now this is all I can remember, haha. I'll edit as time passes by I do hope for people to suggest places where they serve good adobo, hopefully in Luzon, CALABARZON region would be good. haha

1. Binalot - 7, the chicken and pork adobo pieces wrapped with rice tomatoes and salted egg in a bannana leaf make this a a dish i could eat weekly during lunch time saturdays.

2. Kanin Club - 6, the chicken and pork adobo dish of kanin club goes well with the chorizo rice for me, but the flavor is a bit strong. Still good anyhow.

3. Congo grill - 6, Adobo rice, I think they call this adobong puso or something which is mainly adobo rice with a few adobo pork cubes in the mix, as well as some chicken pieces, it has a sort of mild burnt taste.

4. Fridays - 7, they serve adobo spareribs, a huge chunk of it. Although it is kind of oily it still tastes great, I just wish they would lower the price a bit.

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People in green everywhere.

Music.

Live plays.

Bands.

Food.

Fireworks.

Animo La Salle! woohoo!

P.S. Left early cause of the heat and celebrated with some friends at central. We could hear the fireworks all the way there.